When a girl lets you in, she lets you in completely and utterly, she'll share with you the deepest corners of her mind that she pushed so far back it seems unreal just taking those words out of her mouth. It could take days, months or even years for a girl to fully put her trust in someone. But like everything else nowadays, the word is overused and abused.
If somebody trusts you, it could be for anything.
A secret, a wish, a promise even a job. If there's one thing that I’ve learnt
from my experience of "trust" is to trust no one. And I mean this
with all my heart. When you trust somebody they have the potential to hurt you,
expose you and belittle you as a person.
So why would you bother giving your trust
to someone? My ears have grown tired from men and women telling me the same
stories. "Why did I tell him that?" and "I can't believe I ever
trusted her". Too many tears have been wept, too many hearts have been
broken of the people that I hold dear.
When I say trust no one I do only mean
when you meet them at first, if someone is asking you personal questions, do
not feel like you have to answer them. This person has done nothing to deserve
your trust, they could be a shoulder to cry on but they could just as easily
spit on your grave. There is a thin line between respect and trust.. You respect
a stranger, but you wouldn't give them you credit card details. There must be
more recognition for this.
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